Friday, May 29, 2009

Najmi and doctor

Hi friends,

Just to share with all of you the story of Najmi and doctor. My little, cute son doesn't like doctor at all. Sometime, the doctor is just touching him, asking him how many words he can talk now but he replies with crying traumatically. Being in the doctor's room for 10 minutes seems to be very long.

I've read an article from David Dixon about how to manage the children's fear in meeting the doctor. If I have the time, I'll post it here so that we can share the tips on how to manage the fear.
Till then, bye

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

FAMILY

Hi friends,

Just to share this beautiful story about "FAMILY". I got this from my friend and I believe most of us have already seen this. However, enjoy this and hope this will giva big impact in our life.

FAMILY

I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
'Oh excuse me please' was my reply.

He said, 'Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you.'

We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye.

But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.

Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.

When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
'Move out of the way,' I said with a frown.

He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.

While I lay awake in bed, God's still small voice came to me and said,
'While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use, but the family you love, you seem to abuse.

Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.

Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.

He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise, you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes.'

By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall.

I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
'Wake up, little one, wake up,' I said.

'Are these the flowers you picked for me?'
He smiled, 'I found 'em, out by the tree.

I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue.'

I said, 'Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way.' He said, 'Oh, Mom, that's okay..
I love you anyway.'

I said, 'Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue.'

FAMILY

Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.

And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than into our own family, an unwise investment indeed, don't you think? So what is behind the story?

Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

Thursday, February 19, 2009

My updates

Hello my friends,

It's been so long i never posting anything in this blog. Just to share about my children's development. Insyirah now is 2 years and 3 months old, Najmi is 1 year and 3 months old. They are very active or I can say they are hyperactive.

Insyirah now too obsess with writing (although in actual she's just sketching and scrubbling on the paper). And she's talkative, love to talk, counting from one to ten (but always missing two and six, heheh) and she's now able to recite the 'doa makan' (although not complete but I can hear some of the words matching with the real doa).

Najmi loves climbing. There are few incidents where he falls down from sofa. How to control this hyperactive boy? Well, he also loves to disturb his sister, ending up with a very 'friendly pinch or beat' from his sister. But he's a little bit slow in talking. So far, these are the words we can hear from him :
  • Nak (when he wants something)
  • Ukak (Buka when he wants something inside the container or plastic bags)
  • Kakak
  • Mama (I train him to call me 'umi' not mama)

Well, their presence in my live really makes my life fully occupied and I never regret it. Thanks to Allah for giving me chances to have them in my lives. Now is my husband and myself's task to raise them properly with love and we hope they will be a candidates for 'SYURGA ALLAH". Amin